Y cant i name my baby without the fathers help?

this is the problem: my baby is almost due and i wanna name her madison but the father wants to name her bontiniqua. and i think and know thats a ghetto name. what do you think i should do?

Y cant i name my baby without the fathers help?
is he delivering her????
Reply:Try to compromise on a name with him, something other than BONTINIQUA. Eww, that is an AWFUL name. I would name her Madison as her first name %26amp; let him pick out a better middle name. Try to help him find something else %26amp; make him think that it was his idea. Men usually fall for that.
Reply:YOU are teh one that will be filling out and sign treh birth certificate.
Reply:Please do not name that precious child bontin--what ever. I am black and from the hood and some of those names aggitate the hell out of me. Please name the baby Madison.
Reply:MADISON IS A BEAUTIFUL NAME. I HAD NEVER HEARD BONTINIQUA BEFORE THAT IS REALLY A WEIRD ONE. I THINK YOU SHOULD TALK TO HIM POINT OUT THESE THINGS.


1 THAT IS A VERY HARD NAME FOR A CHILD TO LEARN HOW TO WRITE


2 SHE WILL BE TEASED BY HER FRIENDS IN SCHOOL


3 TELL HIM TO PICK OUT ANOTHER NAME, MAYBE IF YOU LIKE IT COULD BECOME A MIDDLE NAME.


GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR BABY!!!!!
Reply:maybe you can negotiate since you (obviously) carried the baby you get to pick the baby's first name and the dad can pick the middle name(the baby can later never tell anyone if she doesn't like it too much) but one you both agree on if he still likes boniqua or whatever it is get family members to tally and pick the name that wins (if everyone is in their sane mind it'll be madison)
Reply:Bontiniqua? Ew...stripper much? You're the one who has carried her for 9 months, you should name her what you want. It sounds like you're not together with him anyways...
Reply:Tell him once he can carry her for nine months then he can name her.
Reply:Well, we fought until we agreed. Little late for that now though. Either you guys can choose neither and pick a new name, or go with Madison. YOU sign the birth certificate, not him. So you could name the kid Donald Duck and he couldn't do anything about it.
Reply:Bontiniqua sounds like a stripper. Like: "LIVE FROM THE BOOM-BOOM ROOM IT'S BONTINIQUA!
Reply:Name her Madison
Reply:Well you should both try to compromise on a name you both like. "Bontiniqua" is... well definitely unique; but I agree with you, I wouldn't want to name my baby that either. My husband and I couldn't agree on a name for a boy at all. Luckily, we did finally agree on a girl name and we did have a girl. I looked through magazines and named names I like and wrote down the names that matched the one he liked. But if it comes down to it and ya'll can't compromise, then go with Madison. My dad wanted to name me Elegertrude after his great aunt and call me "Elley", but my mom refused to leave the hospital if that name went on my birth certificate.
Reply:Oh my gosh that is a ghetto name!!! Madison is way better! Poll the family and friends to settle the score!
Reply:you make it sound like you and the father aren't together, I'd name her Madison it's a much better name than bontiniqua. she will definitely be teased when she's older if you name her that
Reply:Well considering you want to save your child from ridicule and becoming quite the ghetto hoodrat (sorry but it sounds like one), I'd go with you. You give birth, you fill out the birth certificate. Go with Madison Tiniq/Tiniqu/Tiniqua
Reply:Compromise how about Montiniqun Kidding.... Why is this name so important to him. Tell him he can name the next child and pray you have a Boy or say sorry I just wanted one Child.